Today's article will seek to identify the mental blocks to success faced by business people.As you will notice a lot is related to fear,shame and self esteem.These issues all arise from early childhood and come to haunt business people years later.The great news is there are solutions once you identify which block or blocks relate to you.
Block; Mental Blocks To Success; Underlying Unmet needs Under The Block= The valid need under Unmet need
1 “I believe it’s not possible” “That’s a pipe-dream I won’t bother” = Self-sabotage,self-esteem from past shame
2 “I think it’s too hard” “I don’t want to pay the price for the work” = Inadequacy due to self- esteem issues
3 “I can’t figure out how to do it" “I have to know how first” = Self-acceptance issues
4 “I am not receptive to help” “I don’t trust advice” = Fear issues from childhood
5 “I am not ready for the change" “I’d have to learn new things” = Loss of control arising from fear
6 “I don’t feel I deserve a better life”“This is all I deserve” = Self-sabotage,self-esteem from past shame
7“I feel guilty to live better than my parents” “Why should they be left behind?” = Co-dependency
8 “I am scared to see truth about myself” “What more will be revealed?” =Self-acceptance issues from past shame
9 “I believe that I don’t have enough time” “It’s beyond me” =Fear issues related to security needs
10 “I believe that I don’t have enough money” “It’s beyond me” =Fear issues related to security needs
Inspired By
Brene Brown work on shame and vulnerability on www.TED.com
Bess McCarty on Business Coaching for Network Marketers
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